Hopefully some useful advice

Hi ppl,
I've been fortunate enough to be getting more family portrait shoots and I would like to share with you a technique that I have found really useful. It's simple, however when taking shots of a family I now ask that the parents look ONLY at me (and the camera) and not concentrate so hard on getting the child's attention. I don't know why I didn't think of this earlier but it seems to work quite well. Particularly well if I have an assistant, who can get the attention of the child. Whilst I don't have eye contact with the child in this shot, I do with the parents and I quite liked this image. I now start by saying to the adults "I want you to try and look JUST to me and not worry about (childs name)". Comments welcome:
And another one just of the child:

I've been fortunate enough to be getting more family portrait shoots and I would like to share with you a technique that I have found really useful. It's simple, however when taking shots of a family I now ask that the parents look ONLY at me (and the camera) and not concentrate so hard on getting the child's attention. I don't know why I didn't think of this earlier but it seems to work quite well. Particularly well if I have an assistant, who can get the attention of the child. Whilst I don't have eye contact with the child in this shot, I do with the parents and I quite liked this image. I now start by saying to the adults "I want you to try and look JUST to me and not worry about (childs name)". Comments welcome:

And another one just of the child:
